A Better View: How to Refocus and Relabel Yourself in Your Vision
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Today, you'll hear more advice from someone who wasn't expected to do big things because she grew up poor.
In Part One, you learned how Evelyn Suero used those survival instincts and skills to her advantage. Now, find out why she says mindset and re-labeling play a huge role in defying the odds and achieving success.
In today's Tip Jar, she tells you the questions you need to ask and the list you need to make to start your business. She also explains why giving away some clients in the beginning is doing yourself a favor now and can pay off in the future.
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Let's now get to Part Two of my conversation with Evelyn Suero, Esq.
HOW YOU VIEW YOURSELF MATTERS; IF NECESSARY, RELABEL YOURSELF
โI love when you underestimate me because, then, I get to wow you.โ
Evelyn Suero has never let anyone convince her that, just because she came from poverty, she couldnโt do big things in life.
The Ivy League educated attorney says it all boils down to how you view yourself and label yourself to the world.
Evelyn advocating for women on the global business stage
THE TIP JAR (tips provided courtesy of Evelyn Suero, Esq.)
STARTING OUT: โIโve worked with small businesses. Iโve worked with celebrities. They all have a team, especially the celebritiesโฆ Maybe youโre not going to have all that in the very beginning. But youโre going to maybe need an attorney for a few contractsโฆ so you can protect your business. Youโre investing in your business, so you want to protect it. So educate yourself and get that team.โ
Evelyn with celebrity client, singer/songwriter, Nicky Jam
STEEPED IN SKILLS (mid-career): โThink of who your customers are. Write a list of who would be your ideal customers and figure out where you need to meet them and start.โ
STARTING OVER: โNarrow down what you love, what you can do, and then donโt be afraid to do it. Just because itโs not one of the popular, get-rich quick, big-time businesses, you can make it an amazing business. And, in fact, if itโs not a huge business right now, thereโs a lot of space for you to be the monopoly for that business. So I think I would do that one over any other trend.โ
IโLL NEVER DO THAT AGAIN: In Part One, Suero recommended not taking on clients that arenโt suited to your core strengths. Now, in Part Two, she explains how she maximizes the effectiveness of passing along those clients to others.
โIf a client is not a match for me, I send [them] to another attorney. I have no problem [doing that]. I love doing it. I just sent one a few minutes ago.โ
The attorney she refers the client to is very appreciative. She says that doing this pays dividends in her business. Hereโs how:
โ[The work I send to them] is something that I know they can do with their eyes closed. And, so, itโs fast for them. And itโs not a problem. And they send me [work].โ
TACKLE ANY CHALLENGE WITH A PROBLEM-SOLVING MINDSET
Evelyn with her son, who was 2 1/2 at the time, while studying in college
Even becoming pregnant while in her second year of college didnโt stop her.
โI remember some people telling meโฆ I guess you had your chance. I guess itโs over for you now.โ
Her response?
โWhy?โ
โIโm a problem solver. Itโs kind of like, what do I need to do? Okay, what are the steps I need to do?โ
She says, โThere is a way. So you just gotta chart that path for yourself.โ
RE-LABEL THE SKILLS YOU MAY BE TAKING FOR GRANTED
Suero also gives the example of her cousin in Colombia who sends her fabric to make the clothes.
She told her cousin, โHoney, youโre in global business. And, so, I think itโs really changing the mindset andโฆ re-labeling is really important. And letting people know how powerful they are and can be.โ
SHIFT YOUR MINDSET
Suero provides another example of shifting your mindset.
It happened when she was laid off from her job at a law firm. For a moment, she thought about how much she was going to miss the people at the company. She knew it would be scary since she was also a single mom.
But, then, her mind started turning the situation around in her head.
ALWAYS LOOK FOR THE GOLD NUGGET
She asked herself, โWhat gold nugget can I find here, even though it looks grim?โ
Suddenly, Suero says she felt โliberatedโ and decided to start her own law practice.
โItโs do or die. Now, I can do it. I can finally take that chance. Itโs really, I think, about perspectiveโฆ I think thatโs the best kept secret. I think it starts with how you approach any setback, any opportunity.โ
And, really, she realized sheโd already planted the seeds early on at her job.
WHEN INTRODUCING YOURSELF, STRESS WHAT "YOU" DO
When they sent her out to networking events, she didnโt introduce herself by saying, โIโm an attorney. I work for this firm.โ
Instead, sheโd say, โIโm Evelyn Suero. I do business and international work. So they knew who I was.โ
SHARE THE WEALTH - MAKE ANY SITUATION A WIN-WIN
Suero stresses that she is not suggesting anyone to be disloyal to their employer.
She points out that she brought a lot of business to her former employer and continues to do so.
โWe still send each other business - to this day. And I think you can keep building bridges and expanding your own business by helping others realize their dreams - and just grow.โ
Thatโs why she believes employers should encourage their employees to learn while they work.
Changing your mindset is critical, especially when things arenโt going your way.
Evelyn Suero - Founder & Principal Attorney of Suero Law, PLLC
USE A JOB LOSS OR SETBACK AS AN OPPORTUNITY TO WORK ON YOURSELF OR SPEND TIME WITH THOSE YOU LOVE
She explained, โIn the very beginning, when there would be a slowdown in business, and I know people who would get all desperate about it, and Iโm, like, good! Now I get to [take] a break and [can] readโฆ and learn. And I would take those opportunities to hone my craft. So when it got really, really busy, I could handle it. So itโs really just an approach to things โ and to stay positive.โ
Suero has stayed positive, even through the bad times.
During the recession, instead of practicing law immediately, she helped her son, who is on the autism spectrum.
She shared with me that her mother had recently passed away and that had been difficult for her. But she says, โI read my Bible almost every day. So that keeps me centered.โ
FIND THE JOY
She believes her Latino background lends itself to living with positivity in mind and, โno matter what state youโre in, to find the joy. And I think that thatโs a huge part of how I approach life.โ
This mindset and approach to life transfers to everything she does.
LOOK FOR OPPORTUNITIES TO HELP OTHERS
Even with the interview for this article, she said she was thinking about whom she could touch with her life story and experiences. She calls it โthe domino effect." She says, "I could die and, you know, someone will continue. Someone will get inspired, and if thatโs whatโฆ my life can do, I think thatโs very powerful.โ
Evelyn understands her impact as a role model
NO NEED TO GO IT ALONE
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INSPIRATION FOR THIS STORY:
Itโs important for me to profile Latinos, who not only share their contributions to the business world, but who also have a story that can resonate with others who may have a harder time seeing themselves as business owners, leaders and entrepreneurs. In some cases, itโs because they donโt know the steps or resources available. In some cases, itโs self-doubt. And in other instances, it could just be because they didnโt have role models to inspire them, or a combination of all of the above.
Evelyn Suero is keenly aware of her purpose as a role model because people are watching what she does. She remembers back to her senior year in high school. Thatโs when one of her neighbors told her, โ'Evie, you know youโre the only one thatโs going to college on this block. Youโre the only one.'"
Suero says, "I had a responsibility to take it as far as I could take it โ and still do.โ
Sheโs right; people are watching. And theyโre reading, learning and relabeling themselves about who they are, who they can become and what they can accomplish by learning from others.
After I published Part One of Evelyn Sueroโs interview, someone I know texted me, โI read your recent article on that woman who grew up poor on [government] assistance just like me.โ
That person added that they were now thinking of going back to school to pursue a law degree. And Evelyn's story inspired them to seriously consider that option.
Itโs not clichรฉ.
We do have a higher purpose. And the willingness of people like Evelyn Suero to share not only the successes, but also the difficult and painful parts of their lives, can and does inspire others.
Thatโs why I thought it showed Evelynโs foresight; she understood that even one interview can make a difference to someone.
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Evelyn - A positive approach always wins