Welcome to another edition of the Generation Si! ššæššš½ Happy to have you as part of our community. In Part One of my profile of Carlos Tamajon, the owner and founder of The Crafty Gamer, we learned not to overthink an idea; an improvement to an idea can be the ticket. Today, weāre looking at the mindset of approaching entrepreneurship as an evolution.
In this issue, youāll learn the following:
š“ Why thereās value in having experience in other industries
š“ How to approach failure
š“ Looking for the win-win: Seeking out partnership opportunities
š“ Letās continue our discussion with Carlos Tamajon, founder and CEO of The Crafty Gamerā¦
THE BACK BURNER IS AN OPTION
āNever be afraid to put something on the back burner. Itās so easy for us toā¦ keep wanting something and to not give up. But, sometimes, things arenāt ready. Sometimes, you have to let things cook for a little longer.ā
Carlos Tamajon knows about trying different things and evolving until you find just the right fit for a business. The founder of The Crafty Gamer, a specialty shop of game-inspired candles and merchandise, believes his previous endeavors all served as stepping stones to guide him in the right direction.
āEven in college, I still remember, I was two years in, and I was already building a web design company. And, then, after that, I was building web comics. And, then, I was looking into doing indie development.ā
He says the common thread was doing something on his own and building it himself.
UNRELATED EXPERIENCE CAN END UP BEING QUITE VALUABLE
Even his six years in the hospitality industry, a sector that seems far removed from candles and tabletop gaming, turned out to be crucial to his development as a small business owner.
āUnderstanding how to talk to people and understand people. That is something that I didnāt realize I neededā¦ā
And now?
āIf you asked me when I was 22 if I would ever need it, I wouldāve told you, āNo.ā Now that Iām in my 30s, I would tell you, āAbsolutely. I wouldnāt trade it for anything else.āā
OPTIONS FOR INTROVERTS
He advises those who are more introverted, like himself, and who may have a harder time networking or asking for advice, to seek out small business expos and seminars. He says it may be a less intimidating path to connect with mentors and other industry professionals.
āIt is one of those things where youāre never really sure of yourself. But as long as you do it, peopleā¦ see passion. They see it. And theyāre willing to work with you, despite your anxietyā¦ I feel like most people recognize it, and theyāre appreciative of the fact that at least youāre putting in an effort.ā
LOOK BEYOND THE OBVIOUS
Even perceived talents or certain tendencies can, at first, be misread. For example, at the age of four, Tamajonās parents thought they had their sonās future career figured out after watching him run around the house in a three-piece suit and a briefcase.
Tamajonās mom said to herself, āāLook at this kid. Heās going to be a lawyer one day.ā And they told me that if I got good grades, I could get a video game.ā
Since heād been a gamer from a very young age, Tamajon decided to cut a deal with his mom.
āSo I made a little contract with some crayons and some colored pencils. I had her sign it. In exchange for the grades, I was going to get the game. And, as I got older, I was, like, wait a second. That wasnāt a lawyerās thing. That was more like a business.ā
But along with trying different businesses comes failure. Tamajon says he had a much harder time handling that when he was younger. Now, he approaches it as a given.
FAILURE: ACCEPT IT AS PART OF THE PROCESS
āFailure is not an option. Itās a requirement.ā
That adjustment in attitude has helped him try new initiatives. Itās one of the biggest lessons that he now is trying to pass along to others. Itās actually formed the foundation to his companyās partnerships with other creators who make other items like mugs or wooden dice trays.
LOOK FOR PARTNERSHIP OPPORTUNITIES
āWe offer opportunities for small makers to offer their wares in the shop. [Itās] something that we never got the opportunity to do when we first startedā¦ā
The work with other creators has blossomed into partnerships and an expanded product line with storytellers.
āWeāve actually been working with an amazing group of creators known as Alchemy RPG. So theyāre actually tabletop companies that write their own stories. And weāve been making candles for them.ā
That change in how Tamajon approaches failure has transformed what can be possible for The Crafty Gamer.
āI feel like, sometimes, people see halting a project as a failure when, in reality, itās just waiting for the right moment.ā
INSPIRATION FOR THIS ISSUE:
I was taken with Carlos Tamajonās idea of failure and how itās ānot an option. Itās a requirement.ā
Failure can hit hard.
Some people never bounce back from it.
For others, itās just the fuel to get back into the game.
I was listening to a professor at an Ivy League university speak recently. He said that business school students are some of the most optimistic people youāll ever meet. They have such a positive outlook. Then, I heard Carlos tell me the same thing about entrepreneurs.
The more I reflected on it, the entrepreneurs Iāve interviewed do seem to have a particularly rosy approach. You kind of have to in order to put yourself through the meat grinder.
Thereās a lot more everyday difficulty for an entrepreneur than you might expect.
It takes a special kind of resilience to keep going back, time after time.
The mindset shift to be able to handle all the failures and tough times requires a deep sense of purpose.
The aspect that Carlos brings up about putting things on the back burner is a discussion that we donāt hear about as often.
Just because something doesnāt work out at a certain period of time doesnāt necessarily mean it wonāt work at all. There are any number of reasons why it may not be the right time, the right circumstances or the right mix of variables at play.
How many people are willing to keep changing up the mix or keep throwing money at the idea or enterprise is likely heavily determined by how much money is left to stay in the game or left to pay for basic expenses.
But it definitely is something to consider before throwing in the towel. Putting something on the back burner may be something to consider vs. giving up on it completely.
Not now doesnāt necessarily mean not ever. #theskyisNOTthelimit
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